All breakup are sad and heart breaking, but it can be even worse when you think he is the only man you can ever love. Your ex boyfriend made it pretty clear that he wanted to end the relationship, but you still dream of getting him back. Your family and friends all tell you to let him go and find another love, but you know that is not possible. You cannot let him go because you know in your heart he is the man you are meant to be with. That makes you sit alone night after night hoping he will call. You might think you are wishing for something that will never happen, but you are wrong. You can make your dreams come true and have your ex back fast. just follow these proven steps to make him come running back to you.
First of all, you have to stop thinking with your heart. Your friends told you to let him go and they were partly right. Although they meant for you to let him go for good, you do not have to go that far. You just need to give him the appearance of letting him go. In order to do that, you have to stop all contact with your ex. No phone calls, emails or text messages and do not hang around places he frequents hoping to run into him. You should drop off his radar for a few weeks. This will not be easy for you because you feel that you should stay close to him, so he will not forget you and find someone else. But the more you hassle him the more he will pull away from you.
You have to recognize that he is no longer your boyfriend and you have no reason to be a part of his life. You are back to where you were before you met him, so act that way. Spend more time doing the things you used to do and investigate new pursuits. Join an exercise club and make new friends. Go out and have fun the way you did before you met your ex boyfriend. You need to show him that you can have a life without him and you are not sitting home waiting for him to call. Seeing you leading such a full life, will make him respect your strength and maturity. This will spark his interest in you anew and he will begin to have second thoughts about the breakup.
You have now brought your relationship with him back to the beginning. He is starting to become attracted to you again and you seem uninterested. Getting your ex back is no different than getting him the first time. Now that you have his interest, just play hard to get and let him chase you for a while, but do not do it so long that he gets discouraged. Once you are back together, do not give up your new friends and interests. Show him that he has a special place in your life, but he is not your whole life. Never let him take you for granted and you can keep him interested in you forever.
